Laura,

as hard as it is, I have been trying to be the one that doesn't stoop low (mistake last week not included ) and have been trying to give H the benefit of the doubt. However, don't make me list all the times I did that and got screwed~ really overlooking some horrible stuff H was doing. However, I am working hard on being as positive and nice and calm as I can be to his face, even if I have other feelings mulling around inside.

I do not trust him about the pictures. Knowing H it was pure bragging rights to show I am wrong and he is right. That's part of his abusive nature. However, I did thank him and told him the pictures meant more than he knew because for whatever reason he did them, it was wonderful to see them and not be left out.


Me: 42
Him: 43

Two divorcees in a relationship