Anyway, trying to figure this one out. What is it he's missing in our M that this happens with him. He has to figure it out, and if it doesn't get figured out, we can never heal...
This statement asks and answers!
What is missing is within HIM, not your M. He has been looking outside your M for "it", but will only find "it" when he looks inside. It may be an unmet need from a previous developmental age, an expectation created when he was younger, an unresolved issue from a previous R, or a multitude of other possible things. Like you said, he has to figure it out for himself.
Just my .02!
"If you strike me down, I will become more powerful than you can possibly imagine!" 1st thread
