It once amazed me how anorexics could look in the mirror and see fat. Now I know what they are talking about. That has also helped me understand how my H sees things in such a distorted manner.
The "who" part is a whole lot harder to "see" and figure out. An always on-going work in progress... Our Mirror in this case tends to be other people. Our most significant other has turned into a fun-house mirror, so we are learning to rely on other mirrors now...
The weight loss was unintentional BTW. It was more like 40, but as I recovered from the initial trauma, it came back. Seems to have leveled off here, I'm 5'8" so I feel good here at this weight. Then again, I felt ok b4 too!
"If you strike me down, I will become more powerful than you can possibly imagine!" 1st thread
