So much of this is my life. Down to the perfectionist hubby (they are never truly happy b/c nothing is good enough), to the horrible nagging and bitchiness I did. To the disatisfaction about our sex live (well not any more though)....to my doneness and finally then my hubby agreeing to counseling and being more flexible on things....
I still have a lot to read but I wonder about the sex thing. Have you gone to bed naked? I hate to say it but laid next to him and taken his hand and starting doing stuff with his hand to you (can work sometimes), watching a movie in bed and then slowly put the moves on him? Talk alot during the day about how awesome sex is with him and how awesome it was when he did "so and so" event last time. Showers together?
I am very, very bold and will do very overtly sexual things, through the day jokingly but then not so much, if you know what I mean...
Has his testoterone been tested?
About the home repairs...ugg! We have been dealing with that for years but not as bad as your sitch. My hubby will do things over and over to make it perfect though... It's tough.
Anyhow, want to read the read of your thread tomorrow
Best June
M38, H37 S3, S7 Together 15 yrs Married 8 yrs Bomb July 2008 Inhouse separation "I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count) Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)
