WAH in MLC with PA

[DiamondGirl]

So H emails me back (ccing his sister & OW) basically stating that I am pretty much not allowing him to spend more time with kids... and trying to make it look like he is father of the year material right now... (NOT)

Basically reiterated in reply that I will stop paying the mortgage if he is not willing to sign over his equity. That I would not combine discussions about custody with those about the house. And that I would not pay a L to draft an agreement that I know he won't sign, so I will believe it when I see it. That he should get an agreement for the house and debts only drawn up and sign and notarize it.

I'm not counting on him doing anything at all. Maybe sister will convince him. Or not. I'm planning as if I am going to have to move anyway.

At a friends' house drinking wine and trying to forget that my H is an alien and may not return, and that I may be having to move in a few months while trying to deal with kids...

... working my way to another bottle...