WhatNow....thankyou so much for writing! We can't always see what others see in us and I appreciate your comments. I am the same way with the weight loss...I have had so many people tell me how "tiny" I am now and, like you, when I look in the mirror, I still see the heavier me! I have been told that I need to do mirror work...when we look in the mirror and look at what we don't like, and not the physical appearance, but "who" we are and what we want to change about ourselves...I think that when we do the work, change what we don't like, then we will like what we see in the mirror! We are still "seeing" the same ol' us right now and as we work on ourselves, we will see us differently!

Hope this makes sense...not sure if I worded that very well!!!

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