Last night I was re-reading "Private Lies"...reminded me that the chances of survival of the Affair are slim....gave me new hope.
Never read it. Come on, give us some quotes to get us some hope for the night.
My H M me and I guess I was an A... I'm back and forth with this one - either he re-wrote marital history to MIL and said I was an A, or he was telling me the truth... in any case, we've been together 12 years, so I wonder if he's likely to think this A will be long term. I looked for stats, but they're not out there. Stupid, right? Everyone is different and even if 1/2 of 1% survive, it doesn't mean he won't be in that small minority... but I still want to believe. LOL. Guess I'm still in anger stage.
Your H may be throwing a fit to try to get to you - oh, yeah, she doesn't want to speak to me, well I won't speak to her. Kind of like someone posted on my thread - if you're not going to play by my rules, I'm going to take my ball and go home.
