Gatsby I am of course naturally curious to see if WH will act differently due to this change of arrangement. Gee his questions....well throughout this whole thing he has asked about S. So it is nothing new. However, I am trying to remember someone telling me that I shouldn't really analyze day to day and just try to sit back and see the big picture over time (i.e. several weeks).
It feels good to have completed one week of this arrangement. I am watching S and trying to see if he is adjusting. Too soon to tell....but at least I did let myself tell WH "we will need to watch S and see how he does after awhile."
What is killing me is that if I wanted to divorce someone, I would be using my time without my child to get that paperwork. I would be using my day off during the week and heck- would TAKE time off during the week- to get it taken care of. I would probably tell them first, then LEAVE them with a draft of the paperwork (in our case we are doing it not lawyers) and go. I would follow up within the week. But that is me. Sigh.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004