Not sure how to handle this. My wife spends quite a lot of time on facebook. I've noticed that she won't comment on anything that I put on facebook but she will communicate through every other avenue.

Today I said something to her about it. She said it's because facebook is very public and we're already sending mixed signals and she doesn't want them to become more mixed. She tells everyone already that we're friends and we talk every day so I don't know why this would be such a big deal. Is it possible the signals that are mixed are in her head?

I told her that if I wasn't good enough to be "seen" communicating with her, maybe we shouldn't talk at all. She didn't respond. I guess I will just stay quiet for now and see what happens.