Question

[ClingingToHope]

Even if you see the red flags it's hard to end it. At least it was with me. There were red flags going off all over the place when we were engaged, but I thought I could work through/overcome anything.

That's a hard lesson.

There are always two personnas -- the public and private personna.

My STBXW really grew to resent my job because no one does what I do so I have a lot of job security and flexibility.

Now I haven't moved up the corporate ladder like she wanted. Instead, I adjusted things so that I could have max family time.

I thought it was good for us -- another hard lesson.

Anyway, if he's nice to his coworkers they are going to like him.

It's tough. You want him to be shunned and then it doesn't happen.

Rehab again? What exactly is he in rehab for?