Thank you Wii. It is so hard to know how to feel. What to think. I am just horrified. They were close family friends. Their daughters were friends of my daughter. My daughter is just shocked too. She called my ex who acted like he didn't even know him yet he had been to our home numerous times.
The hard thing will be keeping his family from blaming my friend. She struggled so much during this past year. It was so hard on her. She was NEVER unkind to him. But it will be hard for guilt not to play a part in this and for her to second guess herself.
I have weird feelings myself as I've spent so much time helping her move forward and things I've said and felt about him and what he did to her. So hard to know how to feel. But I sure know how his daughters must feel. This is just horrible.