Boundaries are something I was never, ever allowed to have while I was a child. No wonder H is the way he is--I don't restrict him by making a clear boundary.
It has taken a long time to figure out that I'm having to do this to have a good marriage--He's like a kid running around not knowing when I'm going to say "stop." He's just as out of control and just as angry that I WON'T DO IT!!
Do you think I'll figure this out before I die?lol.
I absolutely know how I got here (thanks mom) but still...I am an adult and it's up to me to figure it out. Seems to be happening slowly but...it's happening.
