No longer "stuck808". Now my name is Bond. "MrBond

[MrBond]

JacT,

Oh don't worry about it. I didn't take your post in a bad way and I apologize if my response sounded defensive. I was just stating my POV.

For the LBS, detachment is the key. That's why it's okay for the WAS to feel the way they do, but when they start getting aggressive in MAKING you see their POV, then I feel you have to remind them that they are entitled to feel and act as they want, but it is NOT how YOU feel. That's your boundary.

The problem is trying to get re-attached when things start getting good.