Too many beers is what hapens when my H stops after work. Yes, he could have stayed with a friend depending on where he went to drink.
That was a good step, but I hope it wasn't a lie. Because of this I could not sleep and ended up takig a sleeping pill which helped, but I feel dizzy and not myself, like I had too many beers. Strong coffee is in order this morning.
I was so focussed on ow, that at one point I did think H might have stayed with a friend, so when he calls me today should I ask him where he was or just let it hang.
Treat him like a friend, no expectations, with the way h has been acting all week, this could be the ulitmate test for me. H will act like it all my fault, be mean and ugly, I'm sure I did something wrong this week that H can blame.
I really truly thought H wanted to be home, the way H has been acting. When the WA comes home do they any idea of the withdrawl or depression they will go through with ow? Especially if the ow is very receptive to H's attention or his a manipulator?