My wife was upset with me when she informed me of having a party for our son next weekend. She said she was planning to do this without my side of the family because it would be awkward. I told her I made plans for that weekend. She got upset saying this is about our son. I told her the day may not work out for me. I told her I had had plans of celebrating his return with my family. She then said that she was hoping I was not trying to make her jealous. I left the room to take a shower. She finally came into the bathroom and said she could change dinner to Sunday if there was a problem. I told her I would get back to her. She then was speaking to me nicely in the bathroom and was trying to share using my sink while I shaved. I then set up a dinner date with a male friend of mine next Monday night. She is seeing a change in me and the tougher I am with her the more she seems to come around. I think she is different but not sure what to make of this all. Each day is a challenge. Bobby O