Day started off with an 8am text from H "hi". I hate these b/c on one hand it feels good to know he is thinking of me, but, otoh, I start thinking about H and wondering all the possible meanings of the "HI". ie., Are the frequent contacts about him trying to reconnect? or Is he just trying to take temperature? I have to keep reminding myself they mean nothing as long as he is living with OW in their no-tell ho-tel. Then, he emails, then texts and finally calls about DS13 Baseball game schedule which I have already responded/reminded him of a # times this week.?? He hasn't been to a game since mid March!
But today we stood shoulder to shoulder as one unit protecting our daughter. (as if the last 2 years never happened)
DD18 called hysterical this morning. Her puppy mysteriously died. Her roommate went crazy (again) and tried to throw her down the stairs. I told her to stay where she was, and I would be right there. I called H, asked him to meet me there, not knowing which H would show up. Thankfully "old" H was there. He was in full protective daddy mode! We calmed DD, packed her stuff and got her out of there. (took 3 hours) So now she is home and is out back burying her puppy :((.
He looked good. Has gotten a haircut, trimmed up his affair goatee- which I hate...makes him look so old...I suppose OW tells him otherwise.
I am glad to have DD18 away from the crazy roommate but DD brings her own drama with her. It will be a bit less peaceful around here now.
"If you strike me down, I will become more powerful than you can possibly imagine!" 1st thread
