Yes she will get over it. And how you respond to her anger is important. How about a short, calm statement. Maybe something like..."I am fighting for our marriage. If you were hooked on coke, I would fight for us in the same manner. I am not trying to shame or embarrass you. I want to save you and our marriage." then walk away. (I know the walking away part is especially difficult for you. Practice, practice, practice!!)
(FYI, I said something similar and it was what flipped my H's opinion of me and where he found respect for me.)
"If you strike me down, I will become more powerful than you can possibly imagine!" 1st thread
