No, I won't be seeing her. She lives 3 1/2 hours away and HATES driving up here (we are kind of in the boonies)--she can never follow any kind of directions and this has worked out well in that regard!lol.
My sister will have the honors.lol. That reminds me--I need to call sis and give her a pep talk. I usually can "steer" a conversation with my mother, but my sister is not able to do that, and has been left shattered at the ends of these things.
One of the great things about this board (and this is my second time--I was here 6 years ago for about a year DBing) is learning the art of detachment. She can whine and wail and it has almost no effect on me. I am careful when she is being charming not to tell her anything major because she LOVES to use that against me.
She is most definitely narcissistic. Not totally evil (and I have gone back and forth on that one). Sometimes very funny (or I have developed a sense of humor about her).
I sent her a nice card--way nicer than she deserves.lol.
