Yes, on and off through the years, contact has been limited for MY sanity.
She one time held my S on the floor of the backseat of my car and took his pretzels.
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Yikes! Nice, huh? These narc mothers think that they are in charge or our kids. At least I have to assume some narcasistic personality disorder. Not to say I am correct or am super smart to try to make diagnoses but it seems to fit.
Yes, hate to deal with people like this. I did call and try to find out if we would still have a Mother's Day event for her b/c the kids do love being with her (which is the d@mn hook that prevents me from total NC). But she played her predicatable victim card, all about her. I hurt her feelings and I don't want to be with her (that actually is the honest truth) and Wah!!!
So I said OK, fine. So no Mother's day event for her. I was not going to try and appease her and plead with her (what she was looking for) for a mother's day with her.
Oh, boo hoo. My own daughter who I gave life to does not love me... boo hoo. I only try so hard and she is so mean and says hurtful things.... Oh, she loves to twist the stories.
My hubby actually get a kick out of comparing stories she tells us...
Is your mom near by? Will you see her?
Last edited by june72; 05/07/1011:50 PM.
M38, H37 S3, S7 Together 15 yrs Married 8 yrs Bomb July 2008 Inhouse separation "I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count) Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)
