I know this isnt d busting but my h called and said he wanted to get his motorcycle. I said my attorney said nothing should leave my house until we write up agreement about dividing our assets. at firt he got very nasty and i was going to call the police. Then I called h back and said" i didnt cheat on you because you didnt like the music i liked or you didnt like the food that i ate or like the clothes that I wore". This was some of the reasons he said he cheated in the past because i didnt accept some things about him. He said he was very sorry that he cheated I couldnt believe it. I dont know if it is just because he wants his bike though. H just text my son and asked if he could order some burgers for us and have them sent. Sons said ok.When h was home we use to get the burgers every fri. it was something we looked forward to. Ive been nice long enough I can't take this abuse anymore. The only way things might work is if he agrees to counseling. Our situation kind of reminds me of jesse james and sandra. My h is a bad boy like him and I dont know if he'll ever change unless a miracle happens. I have been praying really hard the last few days and I went to the monastery today and touched Jesus on the cross, and prayed my h would be saved.