The Value in Thinking vs Feeling while DBing

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Some things that work go completely against logic. At least until you can get outside your box.

Rejecting your spouse makes them pursue you. We see it here all the time. We are the rejected ones.

If I want one of my kids to snuggle with me, I start pushing them away. They cling tight to me.

On the other hand, if I am ready to be alone, I hold them tight, kinda let them escape, then say "COME BACK HERE!" and they run away......