i don't want to go off topic here so i won't go into detail about how i feel the advice was to pit me against WAH.
i have to say that the advice here does help me. i do listen to the vets and i am use their advice to gauge my own sitch. i apply what i feel may work. so far, i have been okay.
when i encounter a new roadblock and i don't know how to approach it, then i come back for more advice.
so far, i haven't received much attention and thus i start to panic and veer off my path.
it is threads like these that put me back on track. thanks vets.