Thanks Newmom--I totally was patting myself on the back about the way I handled the L thing. Yea me!!
And you're right--transference--it happened.lol. I even started to cyberstalk C a little!! Didn't find much about him on the net though..
Yeah, that's when I thought about how this was becoming a problem.lol.
I think C was really on to something though...creepy as it kinda seems now... I'm not there yet, but I will be a mad flirt at some point and I will give some of those things a try. I DO think he was trying to help--I am rather stiff and unemotional with my H a LOT. He makes me nervous in general and always has.
I want to learn how to "lighten up". Laugh at him, flirt with him, be a lot less serious.
I did do something fun and not really me the other day. H, me and S went downtown to "Teen Court" to get S some volunteer hours he needs because he is in an honor society at school. (this is where the kids are "tried" for small, petty crimes by a jury of their peers).
S got picked to be in the jury which he loved. Before we went into the courtroom they were telling the kids they had a VERY strict dress code in court--no jeans, button down shirts, girls' skirts had to be a certain amount of inches above the knee (not too short).
I had on a "skort" (part skirt, part shorts) that my sister had given me. It is not at all my normal dress and H had never seen it. They let us in court and H and I sat in the seats in back and S went up to be part of the jury. H remarked that my "skirt" was now too short. (it hiked up pretty good when I sat down) So I "flashed him" (picked up the skirt part) really quick a couple of times--then laughed at him (he was pretty shocked, not really knowing what he was looking at) and explained it was a "skort" with shorts underneath.
I "flashed" him a couple more times on and off--mostly when we were supposed to be good and be quiet--to get him to laugh.
I think that was a move in the right direction, on the way to unleashing my "inner flirt".lol
