I hope you were able to have a good day for yourself.
If you haven't found the opportunity, then I would hope that you do something like that for yourself soon.
What is something that you have always wanted to do but your husband wasn't interested in?
* Is there a movie you've wanted to see? * A restaurant you've wanted to try out? * A book you've wanted to read?
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
yesterday was a good day. today was not so good. I am really depressed. H is going to have this new life with a new baby and me and my son get screwed. My son is going to be ruined for life because of this. that is what happend to me because of my father leaving our family for ow when i was 12, I never got over the trauma of it. I have so much anger.
I know the feeling.....I feel the same way our children are the ones who will suffer for it....but rysmom YOU MUST FORGIVE THEM BOTH or this anger will only fester itself in you and you will never know peace and the anger will grow and grow.....you and your children deserve so much better I am not perfect when it comes to this MLC thing, but since I have forgiven them I am so much more at peace. I pray alot as well, I am still a stander even though I have had nothing but negative things said to me about standing but it is up to me to whether stand or not. Lots of good advice but, FORGIVENESS IS KEY, DO IT FOR YOU......when you really forgive there is no feeling like it in this world, really.......God bless you, I see you have been in here for a very long time. As they say it ain't over till the fat lady sings..... And I havent sung yet....lol and ((((((hugs))))))
Glad to hear you are reading that book. There is a website that goes with the book. I may have put a link to it on my review of the book. I think it is in the stages of LBS.
I know this isnt d busting but my h called and said he wanted to get his motorcycle. I said my attorney said nothing should leave my house until we write up agreement about dividing our assets. at firt he got very nasty and i was going to call the police. Then I called h back and said" i didnt cheat on you because you didnt like the music i liked or you didnt like the food that i ate or like the clothes that I wore". This was some of the reasons he said he cheated in the past because i didnt accept some things about him. He said he was very sorry that he cheated I couldnt believe it. I dont know if it is just because he wants his bike though. H just text my son and asked if he could order some burgers for us and have them sent. Sons said ok.When h was home we use to get the burgers every fri. it was something we looked forward to. Ive been nice long enough I can't take this abuse anymore. The only way things might work is if he agrees to counseling. Our situation kind of reminds me of jesse james and sandra. My h is a bad boy like him and I dont know if he'll ever change unless a miracle happens. I have been praying really hard the last few days and I went to the monastery today and touched Jesus on the cross, and prayed my h would be saved.
Where do you keep getting the idea that he wants kids with another woman? It sometimes sounds like you are making yourself paranoid. Have you signed up for any kind of C?
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
I don't like the sound of you saying that your son will be "ruined for life". YOU are the one there to make sure that doesn't happen. You have to be strong and know that your mission is to make sure your son is NOT ruined for life. YOU have to be his rock and be a positive force for him. You can do that no matter what your situation is with your h.
"Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out." Robert Collier
"One's best success often comes after their greatest disappointments." Henry Ward Beecher
Yes i go to a christian counselor but she is away for a week. I know he was looking at baby stuff because if you have google email you can go to web at top then, web history and see every site that was visited. cribs, strollers, pregnancy test, baby sling, picnic basket, reception hall, running shoes, wedding dress, wedding shoes, diamond ring, are other things.
and ((((((hugs))))))