Just putting my two bits in, so we can compare notes. I have noticed my H's moods, nastiness, coldness, criticism.....for about 6 months before the bomb, that's how long the affair was on before I discovered it. After he moved out he was very very nice to me.
Same here. Do they read a manual for this?
M 65 H 64 T 39 & M 36 @ S 12/08 Two Ds
Do you know that the harder thing to do and the right thing to do are usually the same thing? Nothing that has meaning is easy. ~ The Weather Man
Sounds about right Mila. I just never got the nastiness. I am still not sure on when H's A started...he told me in Aug that it had been about a year...started as an EA, then turned PA....I am guessing not long before he told me about it.
M48 H53 M16 T18 S16 D13 SS30 H drops bomb PA/8-30-09 H leaves 12-30-09 D filed by H 2-10 H asks to come home 4-11 Piecing
To all the Moms out there, Happy Mother's Day! To all you guys who are filling in for your wives while they are on their journeys, you have my admiration and respect, Happy Mother's Day to you, too!
SA - Happy mother's Day to you...it was so nice of you to remember all the guys on this board that are fathers and mothers to their kids. I would like to extend my wishes to all of them as well
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
Any advice on the following would be appreciated. Thanks.
Yesterday my H worked and he could not see our D11. (D17 is on her senior trip). H texted D11 today and said since it was Mother's Day she should be with me. D11 was a bit disappointed, but being she had been torn about wanting to see her dad and wanting to be with me this was acceptable to her. She decided she would just call and talk to her dad. She called him and someone picked up, but didn't say anything to her and then cut her off. She had heard voices in the background. She called back and his phone went right to voicemail. D11 was angry, called back and left an angry voicemail message on his phone, saying it was OK if he didn't want to talk to her, but he didn't have to hang up and then turn his phone off. I was not in the room when this took place.
D11 came into me crying and said she had just wanted to talk to her daddy. I told her that there was any number of reasons why that had happened, one being that ow has grandchildren and one of them may have gotten a hold of H's phone.
Do I say anything to H in this instance and tell him to do me a favor and call D11 or just let it go and let them figure it out?
