And yet, most people here -- and probably MWD herself --would tell you "#2" is closer to what the true goal and spirit of DBing is.
"3" smacks of control. "2" is WITHIN your control, and healthier, in my opinion.
Food for thought.
Puppy
Ha! I hear you. I don't think control is part of "3" though. It follows DBing too, essentially saying "Meet your W's needs." Probably "2" and "3" together are the best option of all.
