Shiny, Tal and Deb,

LMAO---scared you didn't I??? This only caught my eye because of the personalities splitting as my H has been showing so many different sides of himself lately. Thank goodness for Shiny 2x4'n me on this.


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Stay here and let us support you and stop looking for the "answers" to why your H does what he does. All I know is the guy is in turmoil about this. just give him space and your loving support. He'll get there!




I'll stay in my own yard.. where I belong. All of my, the majority of my best support, has come from you all here!!!

Last night H was really not himself, not very talkative, kind of down. I gave him his space. I was happy and engaged with our son instead, son has a great personality and his sense of humor matches mine.

Ellie gave me some great advice the other day, instead of me getting into/matching H's mood, try to get H into my mood or at least not get MYSELF down becuase of H's mood. H is one tough cookie!! Cookie that sounds good, in fact, I have one in my desk drawer and will eat it now..

Cathy

P.S. When I got home from bowhunting last night, it was such a nice afternoon and so peaceful in the woods. I did see a nice little buck and a doe and the squirrels drive me nuts, you think it's a deer and then it's just a squirrel. It's really a good time for me to think about things..well when I got home my son comes into the bathroom and says to me "mom did you have a good day hunting?" and gave me a great big hug...my H needs to take lessons from son!