Talista~ LOL, yes you are right, Cathy got it off this site in MLC forum. I think we all have to try different things, moniter the results, find out what works and then keep doing what does work!
Everyone's sitch is different and we all have to find the right choices. We all try to help each other and sometimes we have to wade through all the advice and find out what works for each of us.
I think it is great that we have this site to come to and get the support and understanding we can give each other! Without this BB, I'd hate to say where I'd be now! But, we all have to decide if others wise words of wisdom are wise to us. Some things HB says are great, others things, make me want to run and hide! LOL
I'm not putting anyone down here, not at all! I'm just saying one person, even HB doesn't "know it all" as Shiny pointed out. And I agree with her on this.
So Cathy, I think you are past going to MLC and reading HB posts. Stay here and let us support you and stop looking for the "answers" to why your H does what he does. All I know is the guy is in turmoil about this. just give him space and your loving support. He'll get there!
