Shiny: ROFLMAO! It's straight out of this site's MLC forum. It's one person's detailed observations about men in MLC, taken from a front-row seat (from what I could tell) of watching her H through his process. She speaks authoritatively, so many folks looking for an answer to thier S's confusing behavior look to her observations for "the answers". It's also where the phrases about "going in and out of the tunnel" come from.
That isn't the big reason I stayed out of the MLC forum though. There are a lot of people who use their Christian faith to sustain them when they are troubled, and that is good for them. For me, though, when I get people preaching at me, I feel like I'm in some kind of Indian Boarding school.
