I completely agree with you Allen that one who keeps quiet about it is actually supporting the affair.

Based on what you guys have said, I believe it would probably be good for me to expose it to those who I am fairly confident will support me and my marriage.

I think I will wait till the weekend is over though, so I can have a somewhat decent weekend with my wife. Because when she finds out what I did, she will surely be furious.

My wife is asking for a divorce and I don't completely understand why.