However, if I listen to my MC and Coach, it simply means that I should hear her out without saying anything at all.
No you need to validate her feelings. "I can see that you are very passionate about this." "Wow, you really are upset about this."
Here is a great way to offer help without fixing.
"How can I help you with that?"
"How can I support you in your effort?"
Make sure you are holding eye contact - this creates emotional connection. Make it sensual - sound of your voice, the look in your eyes, you touching her. Find a way to add smell and taste and your golden.
Make it a goal this weekend to emotionally connect with her. Great for both of you.
Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
