I do feel we connect. And she says we connect in many other ways, just not "that way". What does "connect in that way" mean? Sometimes I think she means that I agree with her 100% on such issues. However, if I listen to my MC and Coach, it simply means that I should hear her out without saying anything at all.

Since I can't simply agree with her 100% of the time without lying about who I am, I should probably try Coach's method and see how it goes.


Me: 36, W: 33, M: 10 yrs
Bomb: 1/09, Seperated: 9/09, Piecing Begins: 10/09

My story: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...t=91&page=1