It was really in the last two weeks, he was at our house so much and then the Wednesday night before H came home, he was straightenin up the back garage and our attached garage...kind of like he was making room for his truck to be in there again. Also the fact that he wanted as much stuff cleaned out of the room downstairs that he stores his hunting/fishing stuff. Even made the comment while were doing this "in case I decided to move out" I know it was backwards, but maybe H's way of saying I'm coming back. So lots of acts of service in the last month, I could tell H was struggling internally, and I had dropped the rope/detached/no expectations that I was finally relaxed and comfortable in my own skin. That I was prepared to go either way, completely let go maybe.
I don't know if this helps or not. What board are you on??
