Pam, I think you're right, it must be that Monday thing!! It's so confusing. I found this at Hearts Blessing and makes sense that maybe S is going through this phase?
Quote: Quoting Hearts Blessing: -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- This is concerning Acceptance
You mention thes "splits" - how does this work - what does it look like? --------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Their personality "disintegrates" into several people-it is kind of like a psychiatric disease-schizophrenia, Three Faces of Eve...etc.
You will see many people within, personalities you have NEVER seen before-and you will recognize YOURSELF in some of them-as normally, we pick and choose how we are "packaged"-and did this a long time ago, when we became adults-or so we thought we did.
Each personality comes forward to be seen and tested-plus there are children who are mixed up within, too-the products of childhood wounds, second adolescence, etc.
You never know who you are going to see at any given moment, and it is hard to keep up with, but the bottom line is you MUST accept what you see-no matter who is showing.
You will see "flashes" of the OLD, "flashes" of the "new", and it is an internal struggle.
The best way to react is to accept this split and be patient-no matter who you see.
For it is at this time they will choose what they will keep and what they will throw away-and come through as mature adults for the FIRST time in their lives.
IF this doesn't complete-they WILL recycle-I saw it happen with my husband-description, page 3.
Normally they should complete this internal battle, face their final fears, bottom out and come on out of the tunnel-beginning the start into the stages of Acceptance.
This is exactly how I feel my H is behaving.....he can't decide who he wants to be, I'm confusing the whole situation by not responding to his "tests" which is even more confusing to H. H keeps trying to go back, but by my not reacting the old way, it's not letting H go back? This is how I'm kind of seeing it.
I mean of someone were viewing us from above, they would wonder what the H*** is going on in that house!
