Andabelle I don't pay XH anything for D14 he pays me (and will have to until she is 19). Now that S17 has come home he will have to pay me more for her. If she stops going there he will have to pay double as at the moment he only pays me for the time she is here with me.

On a 'serious' note; XHs really do have it tough - I just found out from D14 that the car that XH bought (and then screwed me over in the D over it's worth by saying he only owned a third of it) is off the road. Apparently the radiator blew up yesterday. Poor old XH had to go to work on the bus this morning.

Meanwhile I have it so tough. I gained three staff members today crazy


Me 43
XH 45
M 2.7.88
Divorce 7.10.09
Kids D20,S17 & D15