I guess what I am confused about is why you are thinking so much about this now (and I realize you are just throwing things out there) when there is a lawsuit looming.
The reason I'm thinking so much about it is precisely BECAUSE the lawsuit is looming. A legal guardian has been appointed for my kids. They will need to be interviewed before our next court date in four weeks. If I can de-fuse this bomb before it goes off I will, but only if it agrees with what I want moving forward.
