Partner left after 9 yrs - 18months on, reunited !

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Because he feels guilty and ashamed, or would do.. its not something we did, its something he did TO me. Anyway, I asked him and he was horrified at the thought! He said he definetly wouldnt want any rfeference made to our split, or what happened, on our wedding day of all days. And my Mum and Dad would get upset I think, so gonna have to be a white elephant, but its a joyous occassion so dont suppose it will be what people are thinking about.

Anyway, I am mad right now, furious - unlike me. His company got taken over and the phones were cut and they were issued mobiles yesterday - I just snooped and found Helen called twice today and he called her.I asked him if he had any contact with her (he is back working on one of her projects) and he said.. no !!

So we had a row about it, but he insists that someone borrowed his phone in his office and must have called her and it wasnt him. He said of course he doesnt care about her and is marrying me (I know, I know!)

I explained how hard it is for me, with them still in some work contact, becuase after what happened, I learnt that you cannot be complacent and there are no gaurantees.

He gave me some reasuring hugs then...