Libby, thank you. I think that you are right....his "reflection" is probably not going to change anything about the affair at this point. They both just made a giant step and interestingly they were both cut off from cake eating. I went dark & her H told her to move everything of hers out, and not to come to the house accept to pick up the kids, that he is done and is filing for a divorce. Apparently she was not in a good shape when he told her. The finality & consequences are maybe hitting home.

Whatever, let them spin in the wind...I'm concentrating on myself...at least trying LOL


M53 H54 D17
M33Y T38Y
Bomb OW 09/09
OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10
WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10
Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO