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[sandi2]

How you doing today, Foy?

[foymula]

Thanks for asking sandi2!
Its been a whirlwind. Me and the wife talked yesterday and today and I even got to kiss her on the cheek following a hug. Got several compliments on how I looked and smelled on yesterday morning and today she was even worried about where I was because was not answering the phone. Just a little doing something different. Today I kept the kids while she went to a stage play with her mother and finally told her parents that she had moved out. I was happy that she told them. Other than that, I wont look too much into what was accomplished. She maybe being nice to ask for something. Who knows!

[foymula]

Sandi2,
I have not posted here in a while because everything has been like the stock market up one day down the next. Sunday was not a good day in that I found out that my WAW was lying to me about choir rehearsal on Sundays. I found out through a reliable source that they have never practiced on Sundays. When I arrived at there families home for dinner, I asked if I could speak to her outside in the car. When I asked her about it she said that the person that I asked is never at practice and is on the verge of being kicked out of the group. She then started to yell about how stupid it was to pull her out side and we should have talked about this behind closed doors. She said that this will only give her mom and dad something else to talk to her about. Ultimately her so called rehearsal was miraculously canceled. The next day when she picked up the kids from our house I noticed that she seemed upset about something and when I asked, she said that it was nothing. Later that night, I received a lengthy text from her stating that she was upset at me and that she does not want me talking to her parents about our problems. I then called her and she began to yell at me saying that she begged me not to do this and I did it anyway and that they only twist things that we say around to find answers to what they want to know. Anyway, on Wednesday I did not attend Bible Study so I kept the kids while she got gifts for our parents for Mothers Day. I guess she was shopping, but she did return much later with gifts. The next day as I left work I decided to drive by my wife’s apt. since I called and she did not answer. Knowing that she leaves work well after 5p.m. I knew that she should not be home because it was about 4p.m. As I drove around the complex I decided to drive around the backside as opposed to driving the usual way. As I drove around I discovered that her car was pulled in backwards near a tree far away from her apt. I was furious and began calling her phone just to see would she answer. After several call with no answer she came from out of no where and I drove up to her and asked what the hell was going on? She then had a crazy look on her face and said that she came from the office of the apt. complex and said that she had taken half a day at work because she did not feel well. I then pulled in front of her car and would not allow her to leave and she then pulled on to the sidewalk and drove off in which I immediately followed her. I called her on the phone and she said that I was acting crazy w/ the kids in the car and I said that if she had not been doing what she is doing we would not be in this predicament. She then yelled and screamed telling me that she does not care, divorce me, I don’t care about you, etc. In a nut shell it was a hell of a day. Once I got back to our house with the kids, she soon came by and I asked her to get her stuff and she replied that "this is my house too" and then I said that she moved out. Once we were both calm, I went out to her car and grabbed the garage door opener out of her car and she left. I then called her back and told her that I will be taking her name off of our joint account and she could take whatever money she deposited out. She asked me not to do this until some checks cleared that she wrote. Later that evening I called her and asked her to come by so that we could sort things out. She arrived and I ultimately started talking about our R and that’s when she said that she did not want to talk about that and that she only wanted to talk about sorting things out. I asked her what happened to us and why are we loosing our minds. She then replied that I already knew what I had done to her. I read some thing to her that I had written and she said that they were nice as well as some of the things she had written to me a while ago. She said that she did not want to hear what she had written because she wrote it. We then decided not to carry on the conversation because she said that mentally she was not focused and could not think straight so I agreed and she left. I ordered her some flowers on yesterday before all of this happened and received a thank you text today for the flowers. I then called her and explained that I ordered the flowers well before yesterday’s episode and did not want her to think that I sent them today, after which I got off of the phone. In the after all the screaming and yelling, she repeatedly said that she needs some time away from me to collect her thought and that I am not giving her the space that she needs to even consider coming back home. With all of this being said, what do you read into this?

[twolf]

She is having an A i went through the same thing i think she is just trying to figure out what side of the fence she is going to jump over.

Stop callin Start doing the LRT or go kinda dark!

Please listen I had my WAW wife trying to call me then I started backsliding.

NOW SHE STRARTED TO SHUT DOWN AGAIN......... BACK OFF NOW OR SHE IS GOING TO RUNNAWAY AND PULL AWAY FURTHER REMBER IT IS LIKE A RUBBER BAND THE HARDER WE TRY THE FURTHER THEY GO.