While this may blow some of your perceptions of me...
Guys ARE shallow.
Sorry, its in our hardwiring.
Givin a choice we'd like our wives/girlfriends to have Victoria Secret bodies. Any guy who says otherwise is...
not being truthful.
And...
While visual stimuli isn't quite the same in you women folk...
Given a choice between Daniel Craig rising up out of the water or John Candy...
I got money on one answer being more honest too.
To answer your question M&H...
based upon what I said...what do you think?
However... do for you and F her...it is never a competion...if you make it into one... your self esteem WILL SUFFER in the short term. Do this for YOU, Fukc anyone else.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK