Thanks gr8, that is exactly what I need to be focused on.
I will cooperate with the division talk on Sunday. No arguing, just agree and be civil. I assume that when a WAW wants to get into all these descisions so quickly it's because they are reacting to pain and to the surge of emotion that comes along with the choice to leave. I know she isn't leaving town until sometime in november. I will go along with whatever buys me more time to work on myself and how I interact with her at home.