Took my wife for granted, now she is done. help!

[gr8 day 2B alive]

How are you aproaching the division talk? Are you going along with it? I'm not trying to make things any more difficult for either one of us.

I am approaching the meeting as an opportunity to see where my w mind is regarding our R. This is something she wanted to do so I agreed , in fact after two & a half months of waiting for her to contact me to meet, I emailed her saying we should meet.
I know not everything is going to be done in one meeting. Talk about division of assets, child care, custody mortgage schools for the kids cannot not be done in one sitting.
If you don't agree with something W wants don't fight over then and there, just say : I never thought about that way, let me think about it.

I will be going along with her decisions then I will be asking her Questions about her feelings.

I need to keep up what I've done for the last week and a half right? Focus on the changes that make me better, try and have a PMA all the time around her and not persue her? Right?

Excactly this. It's hard but it's neccesary.