I am not completey in agreement with PDT on this one.
I think if you expose to his friends and they don't "say" anything to him... They just keep quiet.. I think that may still embarass OM.. in some cases.
But the OM in your situation doesn't seem to have any concern for his public image... he sounds terribly childish.
I really am shocked at how ignorant these so called christians can be... they seem to have the idea that if they sit back and say nothing to the OM they are "keeping out of it", but the fact is YOUR home is under attack, if they say nothing they are tacitly supporting infidelity
When confronted with infidelity you have two choices...
1. Support the infidelity 2. Publically admonish the behaviour and ostracize those involved until they stop
Choosing to "keep out of it" tacitly supports the destructive behaviuor.. it isnt' "keeping out of it" at all.
I suspect the churchgoers are so damn embarassed they don't WANT to do anything or having anything to do with it, but they are just making things worse...
So many people don't realize the power of organized voice... its a shame...
