The 19 year-old my husband has been having a PA with (since at least January 2010) is his own nephew's fiance! She just had his nephew's baby a year ago. My husband says (on his MySpace) that he LOVES her. In fact, he says she is the love of his life. Wow- he is VERY infatuated with her right now. He talks about how he took care of her baby all day and loved it, while I know our boys tell me he barely pays attention to them when they are home with him all week. :-( The way he words his messages seem so "teenager-ish". Weird.
I can't believe he is doing this. I mean, he is already hurting me and the kids, but once the relationship is revealed so many more of his loved ones will be hurt, disappointed. How in the world can their relationship work out and they live happily ever after?
My husband use to be all about family and being close to his parents and siblings, wife and kids. Now it's like he has lost all love and thought for those who love him the most, no morals...ugh. How can he do this to us?
:-(
M: 34 WAH: 38 (in MLC) Together: 11 years Married since: November 2000 DS: 15 DS: 11 DS: 10 ILYBINILWY: Dec. 2009 Living separately since: April 2010