Well I am not a professional...but I think that if you read the resources Pilot has so kindly cut and pasted for you : ) you'll see some similarities in your husband.
I come off a little...blunt, harsh mean?
Sometimes it is intentional...those are pretty obvious, I'd rather get you to think yourself out of the box and learn how to avoid it in the future than pull you out over and over again.
MLC is a horrible thing to live through...and I am not saying for you. For you? It sucks...for the MLCer? Their world shattered.
While the LBS can wallow...it is better for them to do like you said you have done...make improvements. Good on you by the way. See the destiny of the marriage is REALLY in the LBS hands.
When the MLCers comes out of their MLC...and looks around...
It is up the the LBSer if the MLCers sees them.
It is up to you Still.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
