Thanks, OldPilot.

I will read those. I have read the Livestrong Detachment link over and over for the last two years. I understand the premise, but the action plan is much harder for me.

I have also read:

Surviving Your Husband's Midlife Crisis
How to Save Your Marriage Alone
Men in Midlife Crisis
Love and Respect
Your Husband's Midlife Crisis
Crossing the Soul's River
Love Must Be Tough
The Love Dare
Imperfect Harmony
The Five Love Languages
Thriving Despite a Difficult Marriage

I was never much of a reader before H's MLC, but I can't seem to get enough info now.

Thanks, again!