Hopper,

I have to say sometimes I worry that you have your head up your ass (blissfully might I add) and the other 80% of the time you say something truely insightful like above and I realize that you do know what you talking about...

Then I remember that you also forgot : )

If you Trust but Verify...you really need to verify. And you cannot be afraid of what you find. If you trust but Verify...the spouse must also KNOW that you are going to do it, throwing a hissy fit is not a good sign.


Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis

Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet