Hi Shiny,

I know isn't it unbelievable! Actually if you knew my H like I do it's not reallly too surprising that this would be the way he returned.

Last night at dinner, he did ask me who I told so far. Two of my brothers were over the afternoon to vacuum leaves from our yard. H asked I told them, I said no, they probably now anyway, I told my other brother on Friday(I have 4 brothers). Then H says who are you going to tell when I leave again? I said what? He said "this is just a day to day thing" I said so I'm going to have to walk around on egg shells ro something like that and he said "yep" He goes I'm waiting to see all the changes you keep talking about, after yesterday, I don't know. I said "they're in here" pointing to my heart and I then said to H "have you changed at all" H said "nope"

At this point we both know what happend on Saturday, but H likes to play his mind games with me, but now I'm on to him.

We did have a nice evening last night, S3 went to bed w/o a fuss, which I pointed out to H. I was actually in bed at 9:30, which is first in I don't know how long. H went to bed at 8:30. When I got into bed we both layed there, after a few minutes I said to H, "Can I lay by you" H said we're in the same bed, of course you can! Didn't fall asleep till after ten... H also came over by me two other times during the night and we woke up in each other's arms...oh what a feeling.

My H's words and actions have never matched which was what made this R so frustrating to me in the past. I think now I'm more aware of it and will have to really pay attention.

Cathy