tf - I'm right there with you. My 24th anniversary is/would be May 17th. My H moved out 2 years ago in July - this will be the 3rd not celebrated - 2nd not acknowledged (except by me). It is tough. Although not divorced, not really married anymore - but the day still has meaning (and maybe moreso now). Hang in there. Keep busy! My H will have the kids on "the day" so I will have to find something else to do...............
Me 45 M 25 yrs; T 31 yrs;bomb 8/15/06; moves out 7/18/08 D 18, D 14, S 12