First of all I am mega proud of you and how strong you are/ have been! Second of all your questions. I think you need to be more specific.
So... the positives! - More sex (always good ) - You still have the marriage 'connection' - You are cuddling together and feeling close.
Your wants. I think you need to be specific otherwise.
1. A rekindling of our romantic connection. What will he be doing to make you feel romantically connected? What will you be doing? How will you know if you are feeling romantically connected?
2 and 3. Honesty and Trust What would he be doing to make you feel that there is honesty and trust between you?
4. To know what direction we are heading. Is there a more specific question here - I get the feeling it might be am I wasting my time or is there a chance it could work? Feel free to correct me if this is an assumption.
What you are feeling with regards to the ex ow is natural. You had a brilliant discussion before, you handled it amazingly. Have things changed since you last had that discussion?
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